A dedication for Tori's one year mark.
I can't believe it's been a year.
At times I feel like it couldn't be that long because it feels like it just happened. Other times, it feels like it happened long ago. But time has passed, the seasons have changed, and today marks one year since your accident.
I find that I have trouble describing this day. I don't like to call it an anniversary because that implies that it is a happy occassion and a reason to celebrate. While we all feel some joy in knowing that you are in a better place, it's hard to think of this day as being a happy one. You are loved, and you are missed by all who knew you.
Thanksgiving was yesterday, and I know that many people were thinking of you. I think we have a lot to be thankful for, and we all know not to take the people and things that we love for granted. You taught so many people that, Tori... including me. That's what I'm thankful for.
Many people will be lighting candles for you on this special day. They will remember the good times and the wonderful memories they have shared with you, because they know that is what you would want. Some will send cards and flowers to your family, and others will visit your memorial. Even more shall keep you in their thoughts. You won't be forgotten.
A lot has changed in the past year. Through this memorial, I have learned a lot about you and the great person that you are. But I'd like to think that I have learned a lot about myself, as well. I regret not having known you well in life, but you have inspired me, and I don't know what else to say but... thank you. The year has been hard, but I have found comfort in honoring the light that is your amazing life. So many people have been touched and inspired by you, and that shall continue for many, many years to come.
Rest in peace, Tori.
This piece ran in the newspaper the week of Tori's one year mark. This is a scaled-down screen capture of the PDF file. To see the full size PDF file, click here.
